I have this mug....wait...this mug here.
The other side says "Pessimist's Mug", though I don't really consider myself a pessimist...more a cynic and a realist but really, po-tay-toe/po-tah toe.
Today as I sit here munching on company-supplied pizza (yes, my friends, there IS such a thing as a free lunch) I can't help but think that The Universe, God, Budda, Allah or my Fairy Godmother...someone....has actually provided for me quite nicely over the past couple of months. And to continue to approach life with one eye firmly shut and the other fearfully squinting at whatever comes my way is sort of an insult to that Higher Power that has taken such sweet care of me lately.
Not to diminish or understate the value of aforementioned free lunch, but this is actually not the greatest of my recently received gifts. Before the implosion and reconstruction of my life I had no idea how many friends I had. I have been humbled by the help and support I've received both from tried and true long-time friends and from newly re-connected aquaintances-turned-bffs'.
The fear that I would spend all of my free time watching Northern Exposure reruns and bingeing on ramen and cooking wine has been replaced by hard, productive work interrupted by the occasional hour or two spent happily basking in the glow of the TV when, with great deliberation and care, I'm able to carve out a small block of me-time to watch a few reruns of How I Met Your Mother.
I am blessed to have people in my life who don't just tolerate my presence but who actually seem to WANT to spend time with me. We hang out, we chat, we go places, and when the need arises we help each other out. Recently I have been primarly the recipient of the helping out, and I have been the beneficiary of many a shoulder to cry on. I aspire to become helper and benefactor as the need arises.
Pithy as it sounds, I have my health and I have my family. Before everything went to heck in a sidecar, then came back again, I could be heard saying that I had no family but The Boy, but this isn't true. I also have cousins and I have friends who are bound to me by ties as strong as those of any cradle to grave siblings you could find. I no longer grieve the lack of siblings and I am settled in the role of orphan that everyone fortunate enough to outlive their parents assumes at some point.
Most importantly I have a child who is healthy and bright enough to test my patience on almost a daily basis and who often makes my heart swell with pleasure and pride beyond words.
I have Diet Coke and coffee, two of the small pleasures that help me muster the strength to go on when all else fails to inspire me. I have this little blog and my little circle of followers and I appreciate you all so much because as much as I enjoy writing, it means more when someone reads it.
I have the means to keep enough food in the cupboard to give myself a bulging middle and high cholesterol and the sense to know better...though I have to start USING that sense a bit more often. I have a strong, if somewhat crooked back and four limbs that work to move me about and chip away at the never-ending chore list before me.
And I have a job that I love. One that occasionally provides for me a free lunch. And which I need to get back to.